SIDA!
Footballguy
If that works for you, great.I doubt she had sex. I know they met once for drinks and she was home 8:30ish.... Its possible. I told her that when I'm old and dying to let me know what really happen so I can die in peace......stl - so do you have any lingering doubt or suspicion that she had sex with this guy?
Personally, I don't think I could go on with that festering inside my brain. Right now you are stuck not knowing but taking her word for it, I guess...and simultaneously living in this state of being where you have access to all her passwords etc., going forward.
I think I would have demanded all the text message records. Reviewed them and make my determination from that information. The text messages would have told you in black and white if they had sex and/or to what degree the relationship developed.
I am pretty sure I would want all the information out and then make an assessment and plot a course of action.