Caught wife texting another guy and hiding it - what's the play? (1 Viewer)

[fantasycurse42]

I think we could use a timely lock. It's only downhill from here.

at trying to get someone else's thread locked.

 

[(HULK)]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Were you having sex with her?

Duh, why else would I be paying her phone bill?

She was taking advantage of you as best as she could.

 

[MikeIke]

 

[Meatwad Reloaded]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

So I can see every text, phone call etc as they happen if I have access to account management portal??

Dude, just buy the keystroke logger. It will tell you if she has any secret gmail accounts or other hidden gems that cheaters are prone to use. That way you know the true extent of the situation.

One of your other stipulations should be no more 'business' with this guy.

I looked into it but would need to get her phone for an extnded period of time - No?

Takes as much time as to install any app. Reports are generated and then sent to your email of choice.

 

[Ned]

This takes making someone else's thread about you to a whole new pathetic level.

 

[comfortably numb]

This is why we can't have nice things!

 

[El Floppo]

This takes making someone else's thread about you to a whole new pathetic level.

yeah- jfc. I wasn't even aware what thread this was... pathetic.

 

[MikeIke]

I guess Em pulled a soft delete here

 

[sbonomo]

Lets get this thing back on track, update op? Also you never added any color to the 2-3x per day thing.

 

[El Floppo]

Lets get this thing back on track, update op? Also you never added any color to the 2-3x per day thing.

how is this even working? Ix in the morning and then 2 more after work? sounds tedious.

 

[[icon]]

Dude, just buy the keystroke logger. It will tell you if she has any secret gmail accounts or other hidden gems that cheaters are prone to use. That way you know the true extent of the situation.

One of your other stipulations should be no more 'business' with this guy.

I looked into it but would need to get her phone for an extnded period of time - No?

Takes as much time as to install any app. Reports are generated and then sent to your email of choice.

That app (and any other keystroke logger) requires the phone to be Jailbroken.... I'm guessing hers isn't. I'm also guessing she'd pick up on the fact that it was if he jailbroke it.

 

[FlapJacks]

Did it spice up your sex life?

Yes - she been very active 2-3 X per day....

woah....maybe you should just roll with it

 

[Stinkin Ref]

I'll bite.

She's cheating on you. And she's awful at hiding it. "Katie," I mean for real - she chose a girl's name as an alias...and then just gave in that it's a male co-worker? Fact that she won't even try to lie about the texts and snow you with something false, and instead just shuts the conversation down, is a huge red flag. Changing all the passcodes on all devices in panic mode...

Start hiding money.

just started reading this thread and I can stop here......this

 

[matuski]

I think we could use a timely lock. It's only downhill from here.

 

[gadkins]

I think you can get a key logger on the router.

 

[ROCKET]

Did it spice up your sex life?

Yes - she been very active 2-3 X per day....

woah....maybe you should just roll with it

The part none of you get is it's only her that's getting it three times a day, not him.

 

[Peyton Marino]

Have a stenographer follow her around and write down everything she says.

 

[jonessed]

These things fester. Best to find some kind of closure now than drag the problem out by pretending it doesn't exist. At the very least seek counseling.

 

[chauncey]

Create a fake fb account setting your age to 29. Sign up for tinder. Report back with results.

 

[3C's]

whatever you do, make sure you listen to meatwad and EM.

 

[NajehHejan]

Update, OP?

 

[Tom Servo]

Update, OP?

Besides, it's Friday.

 

[stlrams]

True story guys.... We're still together. Wife gives me full access to her phone and have an iphone tracker. I believe she was unhappy with our marriage and was overly friendly with a guy at work. I suspect she was texting him for 3-4 weeks and met him once for drinks. She works from home so here interaction with him going forward limited. We're taking it day by day. But the guily/make-up sexual activity has been teen age like. Soaking the walls

 

[pantagrapher]

:X

 

[Slapdash]

True story guys.... We're still together. Wife gives me full access to her phone and have an iphone tracker. I believe she was unhappy with our marriage and was overly friendly with a guy at work. I suspect she was texting him for 3-4 weeks and met him once for drinks. She works from home so here interaction with him going forward limited. We're taking it day by day. But the guily/make-up sexual activity has been teen age like. Soaking the walls

What are you doing to fix this?

 

[Zow]

Why is it necessarily his fault that his wife is unhappy? I think that probably starts with her.

 

[stlrams]

we're making an effort to spend more alone time going out for happy hour, dinner, movies etc. We were stuck in a rut doing the same old. i suspect it happens to most marriages at some point where people lose sight of what makes a marriage work...

 

[Dan Lambskin]

True story guys.... We're still together. Wife gives me full access to her phone and have an iphone tracker. I believe she was unhappy with our marriage and was overly friendly with a guy at work. I suspect she was texting him for 3-4 weeks and met him once for drinks. She works from home so here interaction with him going forward limited. We're taking it day by day. But the guily/make-up sexual activity has been teen age like. Soaking the walls

What are you doing to fix this?

HE SAID HES SOAKING THE WALLS

HTH

 

[Insein]

True story guys.... We're still together. Wife gives me full access to her phone and have an iphone tracker. I believe she was unhappy with our marriage and was overly friendly with a guy at work. I suspect she was texting him for 3-4 weeks and met him once for drinks. She works from home so here interaction with him going forward limited. We're taking it day by day. But the guily/make-up sexual activity has been teen age like. Soaking the walls

What are you doing to fix this?

Soaking the walls

 

[Kanil]

True story guys.... We're still together. Wife gives me full access to her phone and have an iphone tracker. I believe she was unhappy with our marriage and was overly friendly with a guy at work. I suspect she was texting him for 3-4 weeks and met him once for drinks. She works from home so here interaction with him going forward limited. We're taking it day by day. But the guily/make-up sexual activity has been teen age like. Soaking the walls

What are you doing to fix this?

Soaking the walls

 

[Kanil]

F U guys... I guess I'll finish reading the threads before I post my super witty replies that no one else will think of.

 

[Slapdash]

we're making an effort to spend more alone time going out for happy hour, dinner, movies etc. We were stuck in a rut doing the same old. i suspect it happens to most marriages at some point where people lose sight of what makes a marriage work...

Good luck dude.

 

[NajehHejan]

Great news, best of luck to you.

 

[Soulfly3]

Soaking the walls in latex paint, amirite?

Home renos always make a woman smile.

 

[Soulfly3]

Soaking the walls in latex paint, amirite?

Home renos always make a woman smile.

 

[Gr00vus]

I'd like to hear some of these hiding money success stories.

Hid quite a few racks I won in AC in a coat pocket in the closet... Figured I'd leave it there for something fun to buy. When I decided I wanted a new watch, 3 racks were missing.

Big success story, for the wife...

I keep loose change in one of the drawers in the nightstand next to our bed. Probably like $20 worth or so. Last I checked, it was still there.

 

[chauncey]

Did you hire a PI to follow her around?

 

[Tom Servo]

we're making an effort to spend more alone time going out for happy hour, dinner, movies etc. We were stuck in a rut doing the same old. i suspect it happens to most marriages at some point where people lose sight of what makes a marriage work...

Good luck dude.

Yes, best of everything to you.

 

[Buttonhook]

I wish my wife would almost cheat on me so I could ball till I fall...

 

[SIDA!]

stl - so do you have any lingering doubt or suspicion that she had sex with this guy?

 

[SacramentoBob]

stl - so do you have any lingering doubt or suspicion that she had sex with this guy?

I have no doubt she had sex with that guy.

 

[Dentist]

True story guys.... We're still together. Wife gives me full access to her phone and have an iphone tracker. I believe she was unhappy with our marriage and was overly friendly with a guy at work. I suspect she was texting him for 3-4 weeks and met him once for drinks. She works from home so here interaction with him going forward limited. We're taking it day by day. But the guily/make-up sexual activity has been teen age like. Soaking the walls

you really should've taken that dump on her chest, it was probably the only time in your life you could've gotten away with it. You have to capture those rare opportunities when they present themselves.

Also, when this thing falls completely apart in a few weeks/months/years at least you can say you did that and then you win any argument... "oh yeah? well i pooped on your chest." It's an ENDGAME move

 

[tommyboy]

that's fn disgusting.

jeezus h Christ...I wish I could go back in time and not read that again

 

[Wrigley]

I was going to send you my SIL to keep you busy(and out of my life)

oh well

 

[stlrams]

stl - so do you have any lingering doubt or suspicion that she had sex with this guy?

I doubt she had sex. I know they met once for drinks and she was home 8:30ish.... Its possible. I told her that when I'm old and dying to let me know what really happen so I can die in peace......

 

[Dentist]

stl - so do you have any lingering doubt or suspicion that she had sex with this guy?

I doubt she had sex. I know they met once for drinks and she was home 8:30ish.... Its possible. I told her that when I'm old and dying to let me know what really happen so I can die in peace......

so just the tip? maybe he chili dogged her?

 

[Eminence]

stl - so do you have any lingering doubt or suspicion that she had sex with this guy?

I doubt she had sex. I know they met once for drinks and she was home 8:30ish.... Its possible. I told her that when I'm old and dying to let me know what really happen so I can die in peace......

I wouldn't rack your brain around it too much, not much you can really do even if this guy did plow her. Dude was probably pestering her about drinks for months and she caved.You'll know if she cheated the first time if she pulls something again. If someone cheats once, they'll cheat again. Maybe start going to the gym or something for some extra security...

 

[Zow]

stl - so do you have any lingering doubt or suspicion that she had sex with this guy?

I doubt she had sex. I know they met once for drinks and she was home 8:30ish.... Its possible. I told her that when I'm old and dying to let me know what really happen so I can die in peace......

And she didn't respond with anything?

That means they probably did it.

 

[McGarnicle]

Good for you man. When you get your tax refund, go to the Asian massage parlor and treat yourself to the full service. Now you're even.

 

[BustedKnuckles]

All`s well that ends well....until the next rut