Caught wife texting another guy and hiding it - what's the play? (1 Viewer)

[fantasycurse42]

This dude needs to get a keystroke logger for the home computer and phone. Here is a starting point.

http://mobipast.com/keylogger-spyware-iphone-android/

Keep in mind that you need to do this because you will never have peace of mind on this as long as she owns a phone or uses social media. She broke the seal here and this is your only recourse, so if you feel bad spying look at it that way.

the access code as well as usernames and passwords to email Gmail, Yahoo, and more account!

Wow

The ones she let him know about anyway.

Probably left out the Ashley Madison.

 

[sbonomo]

This trip story seems to be fading a bit - - just in case it comes back to life.

 

[SIDA!]

For clarity, is the OP not seeking out or demanding records of past calls/texts and is simply moving forward with the current plan and ignoring everything that happened up to this point?

 

[SacramentoBob]

For clarity, is the OP not seeking out or demanding records of past calls/texts and is simply moving forward with the current plan and ignoring everything that happened up to this point?

I believe that's the case. He is taking her at her word and moving on.

 

[Sweet J]

dot

 

[arrow1]

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[stlrams]

Okay, I will chime in as I have been with my wife 25 years and I can tell you I would be hurt and mad and jealous and everything else that you are going through.

The secret here is if you want to stay married, then you need to play it cool and watch everything. Do not start accusing her or asking a ton of questions every time she walks out the door. Don't whatever you do, keep brining this up even in a joking matter such as "Well, at least I don't have boyfriends texting me al hours of the night." Ha ha.. if you get to that point, it is over, you might as well just end it. Start watching her behavior. As others have pointed out, watch dressing habits, watch her CC accounts. If this is something that is on-going, then she has gone to other means of communicating--so watch her laptop. If you notice cookies and browsing history deleted everyday, then you have problems, but more than likely if she is communicating in other ways, she will slip up and leave a trail.

Or this could have honestly been a mistake on her part and she befriended a guy and it went a little further (word wise) and now she is regretful and your marriage can move forward. Plus the fringe benefits you are getting now are very nice!!

Play this cool for your kid's sake because maybe nothing happened beyond a few texts. But keep your guard up and watch for anything out of the ordinary. Like I said, I have been with my wife 25 years. it would take more than this for me to toss my marriage out the window--but then again my kids are 10 and 15.

Thanks - appreciate the support.

 

[eoMMan]

What's her first name?

Certain names have a higher likelihood of cheating. Like Horene, Tracey, Amber, etc.

 

[stlrams]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

So I can see every text, phone call etc as they happen if I have access to account management portal??

 

[Meatwad Reloaded]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

So I can see every text, phone call etc as they happen if I have access to account management portal??

Dude, just buy the keystroke logger. It will tell you if she has any secret gmail accounts or other hidden gems that cheaters are prone to use. That way you know the true extent of the situation.

One of your other stipulations should be no more 'business' with this guy.

 

[Meatwad Reloaded]

After you buy the keystroke logger, get back to us right away with the results. It should be easy to install if you have full access to the phone. A warning for you though; there is probably a 50 / 50 chance that you will find things that are mindblowingly crazy. Consult with the experts for any further moves in this situation.

 

[VA703]

were there beavers being texted?

 

[ClownCausedChaos2]

She didn't recently come home with a new watch, did she?

You might want to ask Sheik.

 

[dparker713]

Your wife has now graduated from rookie school of hiding ####. However, she's unlikely ready to turn pro yet. So, take the advice of those that already have masters in sneaky #### and be two steps ahead at all times.

 

[stlrams]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

So I can see every text, phone call etc as they happen if I have access to account management portal??

Dude, just buy the keystroke logger. It will tell you if she has any secret gmail accounts or other hidden gems that cheaters are prone to use. That way you know the true extent of the situation.

One of your other stipulations should be no more 'business' with this guy.

I looked into it but would need to get her phone for an extnded period of time - No?

 

[Cjw_55106]

She goes to bed doesnt she? It wont take hours.

 

[Capella]

She goes to bed doesnt she?

MORE THAN HE WOULD LIKE ACTUALLY.

WITH ANOTHER MAN

 

[Cjw_55106]

touche'

 

[Eminence]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Were you having sex with her?

Duh, why else would I be paying her phone bill?

 

[Eminence]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

 

[Eminence]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Em, how are you paying for your phone and someone else's phone on near-minimum wage? Maybe I'm way behind the times on your job history. Sometimes I don't read the post dates on threads, so I could have been thinking of 2008 Eminence.

At this point in time, I was living with her at her apartment and didn't pay any rent. I was slinging weed at this point, so paying for her phone was something I was doing to try and show I wanted to be able to provide for her in some aspect and wasn't just being a mooch.

 

[Eminence]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

So I can see every text, phone call etc as they happen if I have access to account management portal??

Yes, the only thing you can't see is the exact content of the texts / calls.

 

[Eminence]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

So I can see every text, phone call etc as they happen if I have access to account management portal??

Dude, just buy the keystroke logger. It will tell you if she has any secret gmail accounts or other hidden gems that cheaters are prone to use. That way you know the true extent of the situation.

One of your other stipulations should be no more 'business' with this guy.

I looked into it but would need to get her phone for an extnded period of time - No?

If you're not tech savvy, it'd probably take you an hour to figure out. All you're really doing is installing an app in a sense, but the app disguises itself as another program and sends a log of what she sends to your e-mail.

 

[fruity pebbles]

Good luck man. Tough to get the trust back once it's been broken. Always in the back of your mind so there's always that little bit of stress in your life. Little things will bring it to the forefront. Plus it sounds like you'll be snooping around for awhile so this is gonna control your life.

 

[Sweet J]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

So I can see every text, phone call etc as they happen if I have access to account management portal??

Dude, just buy the keystroke logger. It will tell you if she has any secret gmail accounts or other hidden gems that cheaters are prone to use. That way you know the true extent of the situation.

One of your other stipulations should be no more 'business' with this guy.

I looked into it but would need to get her phone for an extnded period of time - No?

If you're not tech savvy, it'd probably take you an hour to figure out. All you're really doing is installing an app in a sense, but the app disguises itself as another program and sends a log of what she sends to your e-mail.

On the off, off, off chance that this is not a fishing thread: Please do yourself, your wife, and your kids a favor and don't install any kind of spying software on your wife's phone or computer.

Just talk to her. If she doesn't want to be with you, then let her go. And if she does, and you believe her, then trust her. If you don't trust her. . . . I don't know, consider leaving. But looking through her personal crap is a recipe for everyone's unhappiness.

 

[Capella]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

So I can see every text, phone call etc as they happen if I have access to account management portal??

Dude, just buy the keystroke logger. It will tell you if she has any secret gmail accounts or other hidden gems that cheaters are prone to use. That way you know the true extent of the situation.

One of your other stipulations should be no more 'business' with this guy.

I looked into it but would need to get her phone for an extnded period of time - No?

If you're not tech savvy, it'd probably take you an hour to figure out. All you're really doing is installing an app in a sense, but the app disguises itself as another program and sends a log of what she sends to your e-mail.

On the off, off, off chance that this is not a fishing thread: Please do yourself, your wife, and your kids a favor and don't install any kind of spying software on your wife's phone or computer.

Just talk to her. If she doesn't want to be with you, then let her go. And if she does, and you believe her, then trust her. If you don't trust her. . . . I don't know, consider leaving. But looking through her personal crap is a recipe for everyone's unhappiness.

Not ours.

 

[fantasycurse42]

Your wife has now graduated from rookie school of hiding ####. However, she's unlikely ready to turn pro yet. So, take the advice of those that already have masters in sneaky #### and be two steps ahead at all times.

Sounds like a fun marriage... This is how I would want to live.

 

[popsecret]

Nothing wrong with spying on your wife after you caught her doing shady things. If she was sexting with a guy she would obviously have no problem lying to you. The person potentially getting cheated on has to be worried about wasting years of their life with someone that is disrespecting them and they have to also be worried about potential STDs brought into the relationship.

If someone breaks your trust they have to earn it back. Sure you can gamble on the person that went low enough to cheat on you not to lie but I would rather hope for the best with my eyes open instead of closed.

Only after enough time has passed of that person being honest and faithful to you can trust be restored.

It is a tough process, and I would only recommend it to people with young kids, or a lot of money tied up together, otherwise just save yourself all the stress and move on.

 

[fantasycurse42]

Since you are both here, can one of you address this thread?

http://forums.footballguys.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=723697&page=1

 

[sbonomo]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

 

[popsecret]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity.

Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

 

[Zow]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity.

Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

Stop speaking in the third person.

 

[kentric]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity.

Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

She was a tramp anyway. I can't believe she cheated on you.

 

[BustedKnuckles]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity.

Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

Stop speaking in the third person.

this is funny to watch...its like hes his own biggest fan lmao

 

[popsecret]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity.

Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

Stop speaking in the third person.

this is funny to watch...its like hes his own biggest fan lmao

Nothing wrong with being your own biggest fan, confidence breeds success

 

[BustedKnuckles]

rob delaney @robdelaney · Jan 2

Just found a bunch of filthy nude #selfies of my wife on her phone! Wonder when she plans on sending them to me! Can't wait!

 

[BustedKnuckles]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity.

Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

Stop speaking in the third person.

this is funny to watch...its like hes his own biggest fan lmao

Nothing wrong with being your own biggest fan, confidence breeds success

Arrogance breeds contempt

 

[sbonomo]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity.

Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

"it is easy to part a fool with his money"

 

[Slapdash]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.

Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity.Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

Stop speaking in the third person.

this is funny to watch...its like hes his own biggest fan lmao

Nothing wrong with being your own biggest fan, confidence breeds success

I don't think you're going to be breeding anything for a long time.

 

[Eminence]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see: 1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.2.) Who she is texting. What time. I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Ice cold, bro.

Yeah that's crazy. You know Verizon has some really scary early termination fees.

Shutting it down be different than deactivating it. As Account Manager, I could simply block her phone from receiving texts and calls. Since I transferred her phone onto my service, I was able to transfer her phone out of my service easily.Dumb broad.

So some chick had EM wrapped around her finger, including paying for her cell phone bill....Ya she is the idiot LMAO.

Not sure why you are white knighting for a chick that has zero integrity. Good for Em to catch her and cut her off.

Stop speaking in the third person.

this is funny to watch...its like hes his own biggest fan lmao

Nothing wrong with being your own biggest fan, confidence breeds success

I don't think you're going to be breeding anything for a long time.

http://forums.footballguys.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=711077&hl=

 

[Papa Georgio]

I think it was already mentioned but if she's been keeping things real nice and tamed up down there then along with knowing she was contacting some dude you can almost bet she's at least sending pics if not more.

All men should be very aware of their lady's trimming habits because when they change/improve you can bet there is a reason.

 

[ChiefD]

Anyone say poop on her sister's ball cancer and sleep with his lawn yet?

 

[fatness]

What's her first name?

Certain names have a higher likelihood of cheating. Like Horene, Tracey, Amber, etc.

Horene

 

[fatness]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Were you having sex with her?

Duh, why else would I be paying her phone bill?

Somewhere a girl is bragging that a guy paid her $99/mo because she rubbed his #### through his pants.

 

[Eminence]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Were you having sex with her?

Duh, why else would I be paying her phone bill?

Somewhere a girl is bragging that a guy paid her $99/mo because she rubbed his #### through his pants.

Bragging about being a prostitute? Some society we live in.

 

[Cliff Clavin]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Were you having sex with her?

Duh, why else would I be paying her phone bill?

Somewhere a girl is bragging that a guy paid her $99/mo because she rubbed his #### through his pants.

Bragging about being a prostitute? Some society we live in.

You were living with a prostitute? Did she bring her work home with her?

 

[Eminence]

I think we could use a timely lock. It's only downhill from here.

 

[fatness]

Also, you said you are on Verizon? That's great. In the Account management portal you can see:

1.) Who she is calling. What time. How long.

2.) Who she is texting. What time.

I busted my ex-girlfriend cheating on me in exactly this same way. Want to know what I did? I shut her phone off and dumped her.

Were you having sex with her?

Duh, why else would I be paying her phone bill?

Somewhere a girl is bragging that a guy paid her $99/mo because she rubbed his #### through his pants.

Bragging about being a prostitute? Some society we live in.

Where people brag openly about paying for sex.

 

[fatness]

I think we could use a timely lock. It's only downhill from here.

at trying to get someone else's thread locked.

 

[uconnalum]

Has she ever played outside her race. Maybe she was exploring the sexual myths and maybe Katie is code for Keyshawn or Keenan...