Koya
Footballguy
You're personal example is but one. And not that different from my own. Mother's parents jumped on a ship, grandpa busted ### building a small grocery business, and on my fathers side it was previous immigrants with a similar story.You're wrong. My family isn't white, and my parent's (and their siblings) generation were legal immigrants with little English skills and worked as minimum wage laborers; what you would call the lowest level of our economic ladder. One generation later my cousins and I are doing very well. None of as are exceptional at anything. A lot of my friends grew up the same way.We live in a society that I'm learning is largely that of false opportunity. If you are middle class or above you have an ok chance to do something great if not improve upon your family's lot. If you are born wealthy and/or connected, the sky is the limit (and sometimes regardless of your work ethic or professional acumen). If you are min wage level - borderline poverty or worse, basically you are screwed.We live in a society full of opportunity. Im thankful for that alone. Good thing we dont live in India.
Now, even those at the lowest levels of our economic ladder have the CHANCE to overcome extreme odds by some mix of perseverance, exceptional professional skill, luck and/or athletic prowess, but we had a thread not long ago here that once again clearly spelled out that your eventual lot in life is dependent far more upon where your lot began than any real (or should I say in any way far, equal or available to all) opportunity.
Let's begin to be a bit more honest about our nation. I feel this continual lying to ourselves (some mix of nationalistic pride and guilt/shame I'd think) is only doing our nation harm.
This nation is the best. Time to stop blaming poor parents as the reason people can't succeed.
1. As we have discussed here, today's current climate is hardly like those of the past (all the while, yes, many similarities to past era's and cycles as well)
2. Blaming poor parents, or even just stating that, is a sad and narrow view of a far more complicated reality. A reality that, imo, if we don't tend to, our very freedoms are at stake. Oh, and I actually care if some kid is born into a situation where he generally is all but slotted for a life of near poverty or worse.
3. As to the last sentence, we can reference a couple threads on this board, or a number of other studies - or well, our freakin' brains and look around objectively, recognize that we owe it to our fellow humans, not to say even Americans, to provide a more equitable chance at the American dream.
4. I'm wrong? REALLY? You are going to take an issue with the nuance and complexities as this is just flat out say that? Because of your personal experience and nothing else? Sorry, that doesn't hold much water. Though again, I commend your family and you for moving on up.