Spanking is a failure of parenting. Hitting a kid with a belt is an even bigger failure. You're using violence to communicate because you've failed to communicate in other ways, or worse, you never tried. Some parents arent skilled at communicating, though, and violence is a very clear kind of communication. It might work better than YOUR alternatives, even if it doesn't work better than ALL of the alternatives.I don't spank my kid, but I fail as a parent in plenty of other ways. I try to fix those areas, as I would hope most parents would. I don't think spanking is child abuse, but I do think some kids carry emotional baggage from it. If it makes them question themselves and how their parents could hit them, or teaches them to avoid punishment instead of doing the right thing to do the right thing, or leaves them with shame, it does cause damage. Lastly, just because the kid fixes the behavior that caused the problem, doesn't meant the spanking worked. You're giving the kid a strong negative reinforcement right now, but asking them to fill in the blanks themselves as to why they shouldn't have done what they did. Its a bandaid. And if you explain it after the spanking, what have you done differently than someone who explained it before the spanking?From a personal standpoint, I was not hit by a belt. My brother was. It caused huge problems for him, he had low self esteem, and is now mentally ill with father issues. So my experience with spanking has been all negative. But I have seen plenty of kids who were spanked and turned out all right. Its not the end all be all of parenting failure, but I can't understand why someone would plan to become a spanking parent.