Well if you listen on here, I don't think many of us are making excuses for Joe any more. I know my PSU social network is over the "Saint Joe" phase. I guess it depends on your sources, but when you voice that towards us in here, I think it's directed at the wrong people. The FBG discussions have been heated and heavy, and I think most of us grasp the full situation. A guy sitting outside Beaver Stadium hung over from a night of drinking might not be accurately reflective...neither is a guy who played for Paterno...but point taken.
My sources are limited and I definitely haven't delved into this thread. I'm not saying remorseful PSU fans don't exist, I just haven't seen them yet. I think most PSU fans are probably fine, the stubborn dbags are probalby just the most vocal.
Alumni unity didn't get anyone into trouble. I think part of what's frustrating is that the actions of Paterno, Curley, Spanier, Schultz, etc. are cast on our campus in it's entirety, and we're being told that somehow unity among those outside of that group is somehow wrong or "what caused this in the first place," and that's just not true. The "unity" or secrecy of that quartet of people WAS a major problem. The power that was held internally to mask Sandusky's actions WAS a problem. But the alumni being unified behind their school to help it move past all of this isn't a problem. Again, a few folks interviewed by the media, to me, don't equal the hundreds of friends I have from PSU who have been actively discussing this. The media is always going to air the one interview that gets a reaction.
I agree. Like I said it depends on how you show that unity. I think you can show unity and still condemn. I think you can accept judgement and still show unity. And you should understand that probably using the word "unity" isn't what the rest of the world wants to hear right now. That's kind of my point. Right now anything beyond concern for the victims just rings of righteous pride. Yes be concerned about PSU's future but geez don't move on so quickly from what the only issue should be for now.
I think you have to think even beyond that. It'd be one thing to have something like this happen to Edwards...but take it a step farther when people start criticizing your school as a whole, your alumni as a whole, your culture as a whole...I can get over the JoePa stuff...I have in fact. But when people tell me that I have to just sit and watch PSU fall apart at levels much deeper than football, that stings. I know you're not implicitly saying that, but that's one of the underlying messages flying around. "Stop complaining. It doesn't matter that much." It does to some of us...We're just a serious minority.
Ya but PSU will be fine. It's not going to fall apart. It's gonna suck for awhile as it should but there will come a time when PSU gets back to being PSU. But I agree the vultures are circling and are going to take their shots when they can. There will be jokes and such forever but so what. You think BYU doesn't take it's fair share of criticism and shots? Maybe that's the issue. Maybe PSU just isn't used to doing anything really wrong and therefore not used to criticism. For example, USC has played 25% of their football games on probation I think. That is a culture used to getting ripped on.
Part of the problem is that us PSU fans and alumni refuse to accept responsibility for this. We did NOT sanction or encourage anyone to hide child molestation, and we resent the implication that our culture encouraged this. The culture around many college campuses might sanction recruiting violations, or cheating with grades...NOBODY santions this kind of thing. People want all Penn Staters to pay for a culture that is no different than that at any other campus. And that's simply wrong. We're going to be forced to pay? It's going to draw us together even tighter. If that tightness is what you want to destroy...good luck cause this is the wrong way to do it.
Your average PSU fan feels victimized by all of this. Many are still reeeling and in shock...and you guys want to criticize and demonize them for statements you find inappropriate? You expect contrition? I'm not contrite...I HAVE NOTHING TO FEEL CONTRITE ABOUT! People want everyone who ever loved and respected Paterno to both abandon him and remain silent on their feelings? That isn't reasonable. Paterno was a father figure to hundreds of young men...he improved them, inspired them. Does anyone turn on their father figure whom they love before time and overwhelming evidence can convince them 100% they commited a crime? Do we expect a ten year old to apologize for his father raping women, or even a 20 year old for his father committing fraud? No...usually we go out of our way to make sure they understand they aren't at fault. Do we get mad if they don't beleive their dad is guilty? Never. PAterno earned his hero status, earned his status as an icon. It's a shame he didn't live up to it, but it's too new, too raw to realistically expect everyone who saw him as a hero and icon, as a father figure (ESPECIALLY those who personally knew and saw him this way)to fully accept him as a "fraud".
Personally...I saw Paterno as an icon, and a hero, but I realize most of my heros are humans, and humans can fail, can make mistakes. I think it's a shame that this mistake was so harmful to so many. I hope that after the rage and horror fade a bit people can remember all the good he did in his life. I don't think he was a fraud, just imperfect. He deserves the outrage and the criticism right now though. He deserves the shame. But I don't expect the Paterno family to accept that shame as their own.
Stop expecting former players to turn on Paterno...it's not reasonable, and not necessary. Stop expecting PSU fans and alum to act contrite or apologetic. We did not condone this behavior from Paterno or the others. We are almost as angry at them for their failures as we are at the rest of the world for expecting us to act sorry for actions we could never, would never condone or be a part of. We are every bit as horrified byb Sandusky's actions, every bit as concerned for the victimized kids as you are.
Concern for the college and the football program has ABSOLUTELY ZERO to do with the level of concern for those kids. Unlike y'all, we believe that those four or five individuals who knew are 100% responsible, and deeply resent the implication that we are at fault.
We'll get over the sanctions and penalties, but PSU fans are pulling together and will pull together tighter.