The fall-out from this incident was somewhat odd. The league president reached out to us, but said he only wanted to hear from my son, not my wife (I agree completely with this approach). My son was upset mainly because he didn't get paid the full amount he should have (again, due to the ###hole coach). He was paid the A/R fee, but should have been paid the full center ref fee. That was his focus, and that was corrected. However, he told me he did not fully report what the coach said to him and downplayed the abuse in his report. His reason was that he thought it would make him look bad, that he did not do his job properly. He said that he should have ejected the coach - that is what the training taught him, and he felt it was his failure because he did not eject the coach. He loves reffing soccer and the easy money it brings in (according to him) and didn't want to jeopardize that.