I have a decent amount of sympathy for Melania. And no ill will either.
I have no problem with a hot babe from some communist high school clearly trying to cash in while she can with a rich Western businessman. People marry for the wrong reasons every single day. Unexpected baby, fear of being alone, etc. When someone says Melania knew what she was getting into, and I think of her onstage at the RNC, I think: No Way.
She was a model, but not a major one. In New York modeling, she was not a name, there was no celebrity to parlay into post-model career. Eastern European models are a dime a dozen here. They're scattered around the clubs like cocaine baggies. She got here when she was 24, I have no doubt that marrying well was the plan early on. At that age, she knew the score, and knew the end was in sight.
When I think she knew what she was getting into, I think she expected to be thought of as a trophy wife, the beautiful idiot the rich guy marries (she speaks 6 languages, I would guess she is smarter than the average person). She probably knew she'd never be accepted in society culture, and who gives a flying fig (Well, Donald, but whatever)? I think she figured she'd have to keep the man happy, go along with his wishes, if she wanted to keep the gravy train moving. I have no doubt that their prenup includes a lovely parting gift--if you aren't set for life, why marry the orange tub of goo?
But putting her in a position to be the First Lady, I am pretty sure she didn't think that was even a remote possibility. And really, the only reason she is a sympatheic character, is because her husband is so dang vile. She is following Michelle Obama, a total bad@$$, is an attractive woman who married for money, and has an unfortunate accent. She is ripe for scorn, and there will be some, no doubt. But it's been pretty light, as far as I can tell.
4 years of public appearances, speeches she's gonna have to give and sit through, and not really having much of a private lie, I don't think she signed up for that at all.