Had my appointment this morning. The doctor spent about 45 or so minutes interviewing/getting to know my husband and me, which I thought was great. I really like him and I already feel a little less stressed about our not being pregnant by now. He explained that, depending on the course of treatment, the next months will likely be very difficult on me, physically and emotionally (I laughed later and told my husband that his ONLY role in this whole thing is to masturbate, while I have to get poked and probed and cut open). That's daunting, but ultimately worth it.They went ahead and did an ultrasound, which showed a little trouble. My right ovary appeared on the screen to be slightly smaller than, say, an Oreo. All was well. They moved over to my left ovary and it appears to be the size of a softball with a circular mass in the middle (I was also in intense pain when they moved to the left one). Could be endometriosis, but initial thought is cyst. Regardless, I gather that it's likely that I'll have to have some surgery. Better to know it now, though!Because of my age (35), the doctor also wants to go ahead and do a laparoscopy, which we will likely schedule for September. I also have to get a mammogram (mother is a breast cancer survivor) before the doctor will get started on anything major.So that's where we are for now. Sorry if any of it is TMI, I haven't read the entire thread to know what level of detail you all got into re: your wives (or yourselves).