The next poll/thread should be for those who don't wear cologne, what soap and deodorant are you using?
As I said elsewhere, many of those are just as smelly/overpowering as a cologne can be. I use cologne, but I use a non-scented deodorant. IMO it is a similar outcome to having no cologne + something like an Old Spice deodorant. I just like the was this smells better, and it's not as common.
I use Dove sensitive skin deodorant and Dove men’s body wash. No scent clearly described on containers, but Google tells me they have a “woody” scent.
I get your case and others like it. I am surprised because my wife has asthma and doesn't like a lot of smells and they can set her off, but that doesn't seem to apply to my combos. Seems others are even more scent sensitive than she is as well.
I guess for the discussion I just don't see the difference between scented body washes, deodorants, and after shaves compared to cologne. That is where my confusion about the overly negative sentiments about cologne come from.