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I knew what this video was before I clicked on it. But this is different. Not kidding. I believe in my man.
I knew what this video was before I clicked on it. But this is different. Not kidding. I believe in my man.
Thanks GB. And I was thinking exactly this earlier this morning. This is it. If not now, when?I have to be honest I'm letting my guard down a little and believing in @Otisagain. This thing where you're doing weekly calories and buying extra calories for your inevitable Saturday blow-up is creative and seems to address your biggest strengths and weaknesses pretty well... I honestly don't know how healthy it is but you're kind of merging 6:1 intermittent fasting with CICO and a cheat day, so it's not totally uncharted territory. I am looking forward to the updates, GB. This is the one.
I knew what this video was before I clicked on it. But this is different. Not kidding. I believe in my man.
There is no if GB. You are doing this. Do it. There's no luck involved. You aren't fading a flush draw on the river. You are in control of your life and you are choosing to eat right.The great thing about this is if I can continue on the path
I did that math too. But partially because it made me do the math for my dad. He's at like 11,500ish +/- but that is as a recovering alcoholic. Will be 32 years for him in a couple months. Wasn't sure for Corporation but I know Acer enough to know it had to be his whole life.In no way do I want my post to come across as negative toward Acer and Corporation but I took their posts to mean they have never drank alcohol. Fantastic for their health and probably difficult due to peer pressure but in the context of not drinking it’s the easiest form of it. Never start. It’s definitely a good life lesson though, especially for our kids - smoking, alcohol, drugs, rooting for UGA - the best way to overcome it is to never start.
*And maybe I’m wrong on them having never drank but I think those number of days are like 40-50 years.
I've related mine before - I could totally see a different timeline that I end up with an issue. My dad got sober toward the end of my senior year in high school and it was a pretty timely lesson, if not the most pretty way to get it. I drink but pretty conservatively, relatively speaking, imo.Totally get it - I grew up in a very conservative/religious family where drinking was frowned upon but had an alcoholic Grandfather and Uncle. They were basically about the only ones I knew of that really drank. I didn't drink much myself until my 30's. I've wondered numerous times if I had started drinking in my late teens/early 20's if I would have become someone who was borderline alcoholic. I've really ramped up my drinking in my 40s but still don't consider it an issue. I rarely if ever get drunk and never feel like I NEED a drink. I've had 2 drinks since New Year's weekend.
Not that you or anyone else would be starting that late in life but I definitely wouldn't - you obviously don't miss it and it's not only not healthy but it's expensive.
For the record, my Dad has now been in recovery for 26 years as well. Sadly my brother had to find a bottom of his own. Thankful for those who are able to work and escape the cycle.I did that math too. But partially because it made me do the math for my dad. He's at like 11,500ish +/- but that is as a recovering alcoholic. Will be 32 years for him in a couple months. Wasn't sure for Corporation but I know Acer enough to know it had to be his whole life.
Some ideasZow said:Haven't posted this week but I've been making pretty good choices this week. Protein bar for breakfast, usually soup and salad for lunch, and my wife has been making healthy, low-carb dinners all week and I've successfully limited my after-dinner snacking to an Atkins dessert bar or some Quest low-carb chips. Had some popcorn one night but figure that's not awful.
I have to admit though that work is killing me and controlling my life. I thought this week was going to be "light." Been in the office all week from 7:30 AM until at least 7:30 PM. I'm actually supposed to be in a trial today that got continued last minute yesterday soo I'm hopeful that today will be reasonable. I loved getting into the gym this past weekend and felt noticeably better. But, again, that same gym bag has been sitting in my car all week unused. I honestly forgot about MFP.
I don't know how to fix the above. I'm killing it financially at work and I take pride in doing my job well, and it's not like I can just drop several clients so I don't know the fix. I have obligations to my wife and kids too. And, frankly, I'm ####### mentally exhausted by 8:30-9:00 at night and usually that's some hang out time with my wife so I don't know where to fit the gym in.
Those HIIT look pretty good for doing in the mornings or at night in the living rooms. I agree that there's no really good reason I can't pick 2-3 days per week to either wake up a little early and do one or force myself to do one at 8:30 at night.Some ideas
Wake up early two days a week and exercise
Find some non gym exercise options like going for a walk or doing yoga between meetings.
Do walking meetings or lunches if possible. Either with people who would like to join you for a walk, or for calls you need to listen to but not participate in.
Try HIIT. A few minutes of intense exercise instead of an hour at the gym. I posted these yesterday https://darebee.com/100-hiit-workouts.html free HIIT workouts.
Reminder that I am not a doctor and this is not medical advice. Consult your doctor before beginning this or any diet or exercise program.
If you're killing it at work, this should be an easy purchase...Zow said:Haven't posted this week but I've been making pretty good choices this week. Protein bar for breakfast, usually soup and salad for lunch, and my wife has been making healthy, low-carb dinners all week and I've successfully limited my after-dinner snacking to an Atkins dessert bar or some Quest low-carb chips. Had some popcorn one night but figure that's not awful.
I have to admit though that work is killing me and controlling my life. I thought this week was going to be "light." Been in the office all week from 7:30 AM until at least 7:30 PM. I'm actually supposed to be in a trial today that got continued last minute yesterday soo I'm hopeful that today will be reasonable. I loved getting into the gym this past weekend and felt noticeably better. But, again, that same gym bag has been sitting in my car all week unused. I honestly forgot about MFP.
I don't know how to fix the above. I'm killing it financially at work and I take pride in doing my job well, and it's not like I can just drop several clients so I don't know the fix. I have obligations to my wife and kids too. And, frankly, I'm ####### mentally exhausted by 8:30-9:00 at night and usually that's some hang out time with my wife so I don't know where to fit the gym in.
Thursday- I was already scheduled for about 2 hours of Tennis, Mrs acted like she wanted to ride the bikes a couple hours before I was scheduled on the court but I called her bluff and got her on the cycle for 30 minutes which is equivalent to almost a 60 minute walk, it's true. I thought it might wear me down a little before Tennis but actually the opposite happened last night and I felt stretched out and a little more limber hitting the Courts.Ministry of Pain said:Tuesday 150 Minutes Tennis,
Wed 90 Minutes Tennis
900 Minutes in 10 Days and I don't always post my weight but this past weekend sent it up more than I had seen in a long time, the drinking doesn't help but this morning after just a couple detox days which is heavy water, low alcohol or none and a lot of veggies/fruits, scale this morning was very close to my comfort zone of about 180/6-3 and I would like to see that number fall further but I am grateful to be where I am. I haven't gotten a lot further than where I am but i would like to make a run at these last 10-15 lbs and it might not be the scale as much as it is trading muscle for flab lets say, I would like to get tighter.
Cycling helps, i need to clear 50-60 miles a week and I would be much happier. I tend to only make it out a couple times per week if I am lucky.
220 by 2/20. 5 weeks and a day to lose 10 lbs. Can be done but means no cheating. Think you can do it?First day in the 220s. 229.8
Progress.
The next ten pounds have been my white whale. I frequently get to 224, 223 maybe, I've done that a few times. It's mid Spring, and the weather is nice, and suddenly I'm outside day drinking and eating tacos every day, and I creep right back up.
This is the time I break through 220. And if I break under 220, it'll be the first time in 5 years. Even then I only maintained that for about a month. So if I can break under 220, this time I keep going and march all the way down to 210, which I haven't seen in probably 20 years. Then I will reassess, but I expect I'll then want to test 200 (high school weight).
Here goes.
Don’t focus on 210 or 200. Focus on doing what it takes today to be on a path to hit 220. I’ve found that if my goal is too far in the future it seems unattainable. So I focus on a) an attainable intermediate goal, b) what I need to do today to contribute to hitting that goal.First day in the 220s. 229.8 (January 1 weight was 241.2)
Progress.
The next ten pounds have been my white whale. I frequently get to 224, 223 maybe, I've done that a few times. It's mid Spring, and the weather is nice, and suddenly I'm outside day drinking and eating tacos every day, and I creep right back up.
This is the time I break through 220. And if I break under 220, it'll be the first time in 5 years. Even then I only maintained that for about a month. So if I can break under 220, this time I keep going and march all the way down to 210, which I haven't seen in probably 20 years. Then I will reassess, but I expect I'll then want to test 200 (high school weight).
Here goes.
It has to kind of be a 'lifestyle change', IMO. That said, those numbers are a motivator for me. You can't have them be so far a way that they seem unattainable. I try to remind myself that the number is somewhat meaningless in the grand scheme of things but seeing them get closer and closer helps keep me from sliding. I broke 200 lbs when my wife was pregnant the first time around. I gained more than she did during the pregnancy and then I never lost any of it. I did the same thing when we had a second one. After that I yo-yo'd back and forth between about 220 and 245 for many, many years. I once got down to about 205 briefly before falling off the wagon.Don’t focus on 210 or 200. Focus on doing what it takes today to be on a path to hit 220. I’ve found that if my goal is too far in the future it seems unattainable. So I focus on a) an attainable intermediate goal, b) what I need to do today to contribute to hitting that goal.
By doing that, I’ve lost 9+ pounds in 6 weeks, which was really damn close to my goal.
Dude, you are a freaking machine right now. Keep it up. I'm going to need to take notes and tighten things up when the going gets tougher.18 days no alcohol, no going over calories.79 days until Easter.
TikTok video or it didn't happen.I’ve been doing Hip Hop Abs the past 2 weeks, I’m down 4 pounds
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Thanks man. I'm taking notes too. I'm doing my best to document my approach but I'm learning so much.Dude, you are a freaking machine right now. Keep it up. I'm going to need to take notes and tighten things up when the going gets tougher.
To me WW and the like provide two things - convenience and accountability. If you can find another mechanism to accomplish those goals (like this thread and free apps) I think you can do just as well. I was almost just like you 3 years ago and then last weight loss challenge. Then fell off the wagon. Maybe we do a combination of Forrest Mail and the FBG buddy system and have a group text of PM/email we get weekly - FRED'S REMINDER TO YOU TO NOT BE A FATASS.Thanks man. I'm taking notes too. I'm doing my best to document my approach but I'm learning so much.
Like your approach is so different from mine but I totally see how it rewards you for hitting your goal as quickly as possible in the month, then gives you a chance to reset. Building motivation into a process is huge. Building in a reset to get your metabolism fired up seems to have some evidentiary support too. I'm coming around.
I was not impressed by the weight watchers and itrackbites stuff when I first heard about it, but now that I'm focusing more on macros and fiber and sodium and actual nutrition vs just weight loss... it makes a lot more sense as a wellness program vs just a weight loss approach. And i see how some people gravitate to calorie tracking and others are just totally turned off by how hard it sounds... so a single number that handles all the stuff I'm keeping track of makes sense. I like what I'm doing but I get it.
The single best predictor of success so far seems to be posting in these threads frequently (or having some other kind of accountability). That might be survivorship bias (because people post less once they stop) but I think the group we have here has been a huge help for me and for a lot of us and I know you inspired a lot of that. So let's take notes from each other.
I remember dipping under 230, anyone that follows the other thread knows you have had a lot going on in your life, father of 3 children, these aren't teenagers in their final year or two, you have at least one that might not be in kindergarten quite yet and then you have a wonderful wife who is home and you are trying to manage your career up in the attic sorta speak, it's been a pretty rough year I think by Otis standards...by MoP standards as well.First day in the 220s. 229.8 (January 1 weight was 241.2)
Progress.
The next ten pounds have been my white whale. I frequently get to 224, 223 maybe, I've done that a few times. It's mid Spring, and the weather is nice, and suddenly I'm outside day drinking and eating tacos every day, and I creep right back up.
This is the time I break through 220. And if I break under 220, it'll be the first time in 5 years. Even then I only maintained that for about a month. So if I can break under 220, this time I keep going and march all the way down to 210, which I haven't seen in probably 20 years. Then I will reassess, but I expect I'll then want to test 200 (high school weight).
Here goes.
Incredible display of what the journey is like. I would not recommend folks weighing in every day but I did it myself for a while as well until I felt like i didn't need to weigh in to know where I was at.I think I'm going to start breaking my posts up by week, and then every day in the current week to curtail the length. It's been 50 days since the day after Thanksgiving and I'm down 19.1 in total so about 2.7 per week over 7 weeks. A little more than the 2 per week recommended but I feel good so will keep on the path.
- Date | Weight | Chg From Start | Calories
- Nov 27 226.1
- Dec 24 212.9 -13.2 Avg daily calories during period: 1523
- NEW START DAY AFTER CHRISTMAS TO VALENTINES DAY
- Dec 26 213.1 - 1420
- Dec 27 212.7 -0.4 1510
- Dec 28 212.9 -0.2 2070
- Dec 29 212.3 -0.8 1470
- Dec 30 212.9 -0.2 1420
- Dec 31 211.6 -1.5 4010
- Jan 1 211.2 -1.9 1510
- Jan 2 213.4 +0.3 1240
- Jan 3 210.9 -2.2 1600
- Jan 4 209.8 -3.3 1490
- Jan 5 209.6 -3.5 1820
- Jan 6 210.2 -2.9 1620
- Jan 7 210.3 -2.8 1540
- Jan 8 210.3 -2.8 1510
- Jan 9 209.4 -3.7 1620
- Jan 10 209.8 -3.3 1470
- Jan 11 209.2 -3.9 1520
- Jan 12 207.4 -5.7 1520
- Jan 13 207.4 -5.7 1660
- Jan 14 207.6 -5.5 1370
- Jan 15 207.0 -6.1
Fantastic progress! Keep it up. It's a slow and steady march so don't let any unexpected hikes get you down. Keep doing what you are doing, don't dwell on any slip up days, and keep heading forward!First day in the 220s. 229.8 (January 1 weight was 241.2)
Progress.
The next ten pounds have been my white whale. I frequently get to 224, 223 maybe, I've done that a few times. It's mid Spring, and the weather is nice, and suddenly I'm outside day drinking and eating tacos every day, and I creep right back up.
This is the time I break through 220. And if I break under 220, it'll be the first time in 5 years. Even then I only maintained that for about a month. So if I can break under 220, this time I keep going and march all the way down to 210, which I haven't seen in probably 20 years. Then I will reassess, but I expect I'll then want to test 200 (high school weight).
Here goes.
Same boat here. Weight gain can be a vicious cycle. The more weight you have, the greater the impacts on your joints as you try working out, so then you stop and end up putting on more weight. I've mentioned that I've switched to cycling which greatly reduces the impact. MoP has had tremendous success with Tennis, Trampolines, and biking. Otis and Fred are the rowers. I think largely any of these will work if you keep nutrition close to right and stay consistent in the activity of your choice. Keep it up!Down about 9 lbs. I'm around 207. I'm in no rush here but it's nice to lose the first 10 quickly even if it's mostly water weight. I'm still not even working out. My plan is to be very gradual with increasing the working out but stay the course with my eating plan. I've had an issue with my right knee for a while. It's worse the heavier I am so as I drop it usually feels better and allows me to get back to jogging/running. Goal is to drop enough where I'll be ready to run more once the weather warms back up.
My .02 while you are losing a lot of weight, cycle cycle cycle, less joint pain while you are putting the most stress at the highest weight on them...but do whatever makes you happy.Jan 1 274.4
Jan 12 262.4 - 12.0 lbs, 1627 cal (227 over goal), lift, 20 min jog
Jan 13 261.8 - 12.6 lbs, 1417 cal (17 over goal), no exercise
Jan 14 261.8 - 12.6 lbs, 1686 cal (286 over goal), lift, 20 min cycle
Jan 15 260.6 - 13.8 lbs
Well don't look now but you are on pace to not do anything crazy like break the 200 mark towards the end of this month or start of the next month.Nothing crazy, just losing 10-15 lbs or almost an entire pants size, awesome!1/1: 213.8
1/2: 214.0
1/3: 213.2
1/4: 213.4
1/5: 212.4
1/6: 212.0
1/7: 211.4
1/8: 211.4
1/9: 210.8
1/10: 211.4
1/11: 211.6
1/12: 211.8
1/13: 209.8
1/14: 208.8
1/15: 207.2
Not doing anything crazy
I wish I could say the walking meetings or lunches was possible but it's not. With Covid and my increased workload I generally do the @Otis approach to lunch and eat quickly at my desk while either reviewing works, watching the news, or looking at FBG. And I don't really have meetings I don't have to participate in or time between meetings to do yoga.
19 days no alcohol, no going over calories. 78 days until Easter.18 days no alcohol, no going over calories.79 days until Easter.