That's a very good and understandable post, NR.

Maybe 2 caveats from a casual.
1) in your basketball example (which is very good) the only slight issue I might add from a casual's perspective is that we aren't being told by media and other serious fans that this curtent basketball is a good one. That it has a "Golden Generation". That there are lofty expectations - no, not Championship or bust expectations - but certainly better than what we just saw out of USMNT recently.
2) as a casual, how on EARTH does a game of that magnitude (US v URG) employ the services of a central referee with such light credentials? 7 games? Egad. As a casual, I well remember the public outcry the NFL's replacement referees elicited from the masses. That strike nor the experiment lasted long. NFL fixed it. Cannot imagine any major sporting event using such an unqualified head referee.
Those are just 2 observations I have. I think if I followed the sport as close as you and others do, guys like me would cause me irritation too. So I get it.